June 29th, 2024

Dying together: Why a happily married couple decided to stop living

A Dutch couple, Jan and Els, married for nearly five decades, opted for duo-euthanasia due to Jan's chronic pain and Els's dementia. Their joint decision reflects the ethical complexities of euthanasia, emphasizing the rising trend of duo-euthanasia in the Netherlands.

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Dying together: Why a happily married couple decided to stop living

Jan and Els, a Dutch couple married for nearly five decades, chose to die together through duo-euthanasia. Jan, 70, suffered from chronic back pain, while Els, 71, had dementia. They had a shared love for water and boats throughout their life together. After Els was diagnosed with dementia and their GP was reluctant to assist with euthanasia, they turned to a mobile euthanasia clinic. The couple's son supported their decision, although it was emotionally challenging for him. Jan and Els spent their last moments surrounded by family and friends before being administered lethal medication by doctors. Their son plans to keep their campervan to create more family memories before eventually selling it. The case highlights the complex ethical and legal considerations surrounding euthanasia, especially in cases involving dementia. The couple's decision to end their lives together sheds light on the growing trend of duo-euthanasia in the Netherlands and the impact it has on families and society.

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By @Simulacra - 5 months
I respect their decision. I only hope that I have this option when the time comes. Watching my father, wither away in agony, was absolutely awful. I don't want that for my family, and I think it's my human right to decide my exit.
By @seventytwo - 5 months
There’s a big difference between something like this and the case of blinding, transient, despair-driven suicidality that we typically think of.

I’d agree that in the transient case, intervention should take place. But in a case like this where it’s planned and reviewed with a doctor, I don’t see any ethical problems.

By @akudha - 5 months
Why don’t more countries enact laws like this? This makes perfect sense. I don’t want to live with conditions like dementia. I didn’t have a say in my birth, I sure as shit should have a say in my death.
By @windows2020 - 5 months
Interesting that abortion is legal in ~37 states and this in ~10.
By @wiseowise - 5 months
Amazing. In absence of a cure, this is the most humane course of action. Dying together in a family circle with no pain and retaining dignity.
By @ejang0 - 5 months
"He’s 70, and sits in the swivel driving-seat of the van, one leg bent underneath him in the only position that eases his continuous back pain. His wife, Els, is 71 and has dementia. Now, she struggles to formulate her sentences."