July 3rd, 2024

Social media is a likely cause of confusion in modern mate selection

A sociological study reveals social media confuses modern mate selection, especially for young adults. Women report more uncertainty than men due to dating apps and altered perceptions. Research by Chayan Munshi explores evolving mate selection trends influenced by social media.

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Social media is a likely cause of confusion in modern mate selection

A recent sociological study suggests that social media plays a significant role in causing confusion in modern mate selection. The study reveals that many young adults feel uncertain about choosing life partners, with women more likely to report confusion than men. The availability of numerous potential mates through dating apps and photo enhancements can distort perceptions of reality. Chayan Munshi, from the Ethophilia Research Foundation, highlights how social media exposure influences mate selection by creating unrealistic perceptions. Initial results from a survey in India show that the perception of available partners can lead to impulsive behavior and decreased in-person interactions, affecting relationship stability. Munshi's ongoing research aims to understand how mate selection is evolving, emphasizing the shift towards short-term pleasure over long-term stability. This research, presented at the Society for Experimental Biology Annual Conference, explores the potential impact of social media on human mate selection behavior and societal norms.

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By @xnx - 5 months
The modern world is so far removed from the circumstances our species evolved into and existed in up until just a few hundred generations ago, that it is hard to make any strong claim as to what "normal" social behavior in humans is.
By @082349872349872 - 5 months
Meta: is it common for "research foundations" in india to be organised as a PLC?

https://www.filesure.in/company/ethophilia-research-foundati...

(also, note that this is below even the usual standards of phys.org, in that there is no article, these are self-reported "preliminary results of this ongoing project")

By @electrodank - 5 months
"Our hypothesis strongly indicates that the 'pleasure index' or 'adrenaline rush' of relationships is taking more prime importance in the younger generation over long-term stability," he says. "It is alarming that impulsiveness or confusion can lead to instability in the human relation-maintaining behavior, which is actually affecting the normal social behavior in humans."

This is orthogonal from social media.

By @Zak - 5 months
The article does not define what "confusion" means in this context. Does it mean that people are confused about what their criteria for mate selection are? About who is available as a potential partner? About what kinds of relationships are desirable?
By @stuartjohnson12 - 5 months
A lot of dating research suffers from issues with status signals interfering with stated preference. Men overstate their number of sexual partners and women understate theirs because doing so affords them status. Reporting that you have very high standards for your mate is a higher status behaviour than reporting that you have low standards, so people who desire status will tend to overstate their requirements for sexual partners.

Social media probably exaggerates this effect somewhat, but it's hard to say how much it transfers.

This will probably get a lot of upvotes though because it appears to confirm common HN user priors.

By @lostemptations5 - 5 months
It's more fun to date and enjoy life than slog through a hum drum relationship which will produce children and eventually lead to divorce.

News at 11.