July 1st, 2024

In Iceland 'It is routine to see if you are related to a romantic partner'

In Iceland, couples use Íslendingabók to check for familial ties. Sigrún and Einar discovered they were distantly related. They prioritize open communication, shared responsibilities, and mutual respect for a satisfying sex life.

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In Iceland 'It is routine to see if you are related to a romantic partner'

In Iceland, it is common practice to check for familial relations with a romantic partner before committing seriously, using a website called Íslendingabók to prevent accidental incest due to the small population. Sigrún and Einar, a couple from Iceland, found out they were distantly related through this process. Their relationship evolved over the years, with Sigrún focusing on her own pleasure during sex and taking charge of lovemaking. They also efficiently divide childcare duties to enhance their sex life. Einar views their sex life as a continuous process of improvement, akin to tinkering with a car. The couple communicates openly about their sexual preferences and regularly reviews their relationship dynamics. They have experimented with power-play in the bedroom, finding that equality in household chores facilitates such dynamics. Despite Iceland's reputation for gender equality, Sigrún initiated discussions about the division of labor in their relationship. Their story reflects how open communication, mutual respect, and shared responsibilities contribute to a satisfying and evolving sex life within a long-term relationship.

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By @compsciphd - 4 months
It's somewhat common in ashkenazi jewish circles (much more common in the more ultra orthodox circles where everything is done via matchmaker), to have genetic profiles matched (ultra orthodox do it double blind, you don't even know your profile, you are given a number after being tested and matchmakers can submit both numbers and are just told if both are carriers for a tested genetic disease).
By @fsckboy - 4 months
FTA

>‘It is routine to check whether you are related to a romantic partner before you get serious’: This is how we do it in Iceland >When Sigrún checked out her family tree online, it wasn’t to find out if she and Einar were related – it was how closely related

then the article starts talking about their sex-life...

By @hilux - 4 months
If it was good enough for Adam and Eve (and their spawn), why isn't it good enough for Icelanders?
By @082349872349872 - 4 months
compare (one of the uses of) "the Mennonite Game"